Stocking up before the baby arrives is a great idea! The less stress the best – when you get home you just want to drink in as much as you can of that bundle of joy!
Pet Food. Stores easily & doesn’t go out of date quickly, so watch out for good specials leading up to the birth. I also wrote out a very specific feeding guide for Penny – much to my Father in Laws delight (he thought the detail was hilarious). But we had a couple of people helping out with Penny so I wanted to make sure everyone knew what was going on!
Hand Soap/Sanitiser – you want everyone to wash their hands before the touch that bundle of joy you will need extra. And you will be washing you hands constantly with all those nappy changes – so stock up!
Wipes – So many wipes. It will take you a while to work on your technique just stock up so you are ready to go. 6 months later I still haven’t bought wipes!
Panadol – for you and the baby (after 4 weeks) you don’t know when you will need it so it’s best just to have it. Better safe than sorry.
Snacks – you’re exhausted and people will keep coming over. Nuts, muesli bars, a batch of bliss balls, crackers – stuff you can grab out of the fridge or pantry with one hand while your holding a baby who doesn’t want to be put down. I once ate a packet of strawberries and cream lollies for lunch because that was literally what was at the front of the pantry. And if people offer to bring stuff over – ask for fruit (easy to eat with one hand fruit)
Frozen food – Dinners that can be put in the oven. Crumbed chicken and chips is not a nutritious dinner – but when you are exhausted that crumbed chicken out of the oven will be easy and possibly the most tasty thing you have eaten that day!
Toilet Paper & Tissues – because you don’t want to run out of the necessities. Anything to stop running to the shops.
Anything else that you were glad that you had stocked up on before your baby arrived?
Having a baby is such a exciting time, but having these couple of things done before the big arrival will make it all that little bit easier!
Make some frozen dinners! I was very smug and thought that we would have this sorted. CJ had 5 weeks off so between us definitely would get dinner sorted. But between the dog not sure of this new ‘thing’, the feeding, guests, endless washing, nappies, no schedule and a new human – it’s hectic. So make some extra food. I did make 6 lasagnes and froze them in foil containers (so there was no dinner) and we loved them! So easy and homemade. I also made cookies and froze the dough, brownies in the same disposable foil containers for the snacks. YOU NEED ALL THE SNACKS! If you are giving breast feeding a go you will need snacks!
Washing the baby clothes. Wash them in something nice and gentle for the babies skin. I used softly liquid as I didn’t want to have to dissolve flakes first because we have a front loader and it smelt amazing. Also don’t be afraid to let people do the washing for you. My mum kept asking if she could do it, it kept saying no. But why? I was tired towards the end and I washed all the adorable outfits and let mum have the boring wraps and sheets.
Packing bags – both yours and the babies. I went into hospital with labor pains at 35 weeks. It was a bit of a scramble to throw stuff in a bag. Luckily for me they only kept me for 6 hours and let me go home because the pains had stopped. The next day I packed our bags! HA don’t wait! Don’t forget the snacks! Not just lollies, crackers, muesli bars, nuts are all good ideas.
Have your thank you cards sorted – if possible send out your thank you cards for your baby shower. This is something I didn’t do and 5 months later still haven’t completed it! Get you baby shower thank you cards out and then it’s done. You’re not worrying about it with a newborn. When people give you a gift when the baby arrives keep a list.
Pick your photographer if you are going to have one before your due date! You may want to meet with them and explain what your vision is and to see if they can fit you in your approximate dates. You may also need to ask if you need to supply some of the props or they supply everything.
Have your car seat fitted. Most baby stores fit car seat even if they haven’t been bought from them. But check your local auto stores and ambulance station as well. I would get your car seat installed around 35/36 weeks.
Some new “after”clothes. I didn’t do this until 2 weeks after I had Paddy. I went to K Mart and bought a couple of pairs of shorts and a couple of tops. CJ calls it my mum uniform – and I guess it is. Its easy to throw on – no ironing and comfy. Just what you need in the first couple of weeks when you are at home more than usual, or have visitors and not your daggiest clothes so you can still get a coffee or run to the shops and feel comfortable. 5 months later and I still wear my mum uniform when I’m at home because there is no thought required!
Do a dry run to the hospital. Most maternity wards offer tours, so you know how long it will take to get there, where to park, what ward to go to etc.
LATE ADDITION – One thing I wish I did but didn’t have the money. I wish I got the house properly cleaned. Towards the end of my pregnancy I didn’t clean, CJ did everything but I wish I paid for a deep clean of the house, ovens, base boards etc.
Good luck to you and your upcoming baby! I hope you get everything organised before your baby arrives!
If you are lucky like me, you might get a baby that doesn’t sleep! To be fair – Paddy did sleep at night – just not during the day. Which was good for my evening sleep, but not so great for getting anything done during the day. So here is the routine that worked for us, we fell into this and tweaked it until it worked for all of us. You can see that this routine was from 6 weeks – before that we winged it a little and as I said we ‘fell’ into this. It took us a couple of days to realise Paddy wanted to be fed all afternoon/night and wasn’t that fussed during the day – so thats what we went with.
4-5am – Feed (depend what time he woke up)
5-9am – Sleep
9-9:30 – Feed
9:30-1pm – Awake/Play
4:30 – 5 Bath
5 – 5:30pm Tummy Time and Story
5:30 – 6pm Swing
6 – 6:30pm Feed
6:30 – 8pm Quite Time
8 – 8:30pm Feed
As you can see, we fed more often in the afternoons – this was baby led and help him sleep through the night with only 1 wake up at 4am. He would often have a 1 x 20 min sleep during the day, only one nap would make him a little bit grumpy during the day. We were lent a swing – this was a life saver. We found that even if he didn’t sleep the swing (which also vibrated) made him relax to the point that he would have a cat nap (20 mins max) or relax so much he was rested and wouldn’t be grumpy. At this age he only would sleep in his swing or in our arms so the swing was our savour, as soon as we put him down he would lose his mind.
We were pretty stressed about the not sleeping thing – we went to the Pediatrician but he told us that he found “smart ones normally didn’t sleep.” Haha good one – I’m 100% sure he said that to all new mothers and changed it to be a sleeper or a non sleeper just to make us feel better! But if you are lucky enough to get a non-sleeper like me then know you are not alone!
Here are some of the things that I did find to help him to have a nap
Vacuum cleaner (apparently sounds like the womb) Paddy would sleep so much longer when I was vacuuming and I would literally vacuum around him. Sometimes i would vacuum the house twice just to get him to sleep longer that 20 mins.
The swing – the only thing at the beginning that worked besides holding him. Also handy if you have vibrate on your swing – amazing for babies with wind.
Muslin Wrap – Paddy has hated being swaddled since about 2 weeks old so we use sleeping bags at night. But he is also a hot sleeper (would get super sweaty) so I didn’t like to put him in his sleeping bag during the day, but I found a light wrap over his legs does the trick – I don’t know why but he sleeps much longer with a wrap draped on him. I understand this is a SIDs risk and so I only ever did it when he was being totally supervised but it helped. I think he likes to touch and grasp something?
A dummy. I’m not a massive dummy fan but a dummy is very helpful when the are grumpy from being over tired. The sucking motion really relaxed him.
Milk supply, isn’t something that you really think about until it’s a problem. For me it was a massive problem – as in it was non existent! Unfortunately mostly you either have way too much or not enough! I really struggled mentally as I wasn’t prepared for it and I felt really guilty for not being able to supply my baby with what he needed. He was losing weight, didn’t have any wet nappies and had a temperature. Luckily I was still in hospital when all of this went down and I had a Lactation Consultant with me every step of the way along with a very supportive husband! So here are 3 things that I have found to work well and I have done a ton of research, spoken to everyone I could & researched the hell out of – so this is what worked for me!!!
Galactogogues! Funny name but it basically means a substance that helps milk supply! Exactly what you want – the 2 that are most highly recommended are fenugreek and milk thistle. My naturopath and LC both recommended Fenugreek over anything else – I took this in combination with Milk Thistle. Fenugreek I was taking 4 tablets 3 times a day (12 total) but the difference is remarkable. I was pumping 2 ml at hospital (both sides combined 4 days PP) and after about a week at home it was up to 60 ml combined (after feeding). If we have another child I will actually pack this in my bag for the hospital next time! Other galactogogues include oats and brewers yeast – both which I’ll talk about in my next point. If you are interested in other Galactogogues I found this article helpful Common Galactogogues.
Lactation Cookies – I used the recipe at Just Mommies you can get it here. I added an egg to the mix because I like eggs! but it is not necessary. The oats and the brewers yeast are both galactogogues so be sure not to leave them out or substitute them. I used just regular rolled oats from Coles but I bought the Brewers yeast from the health food section in our local chemist (FYI – it is not nutritional yeast). If cookies aren’t your thing there a ton of smoothies & bliss balls on Pinterest. Follow me here.
Motilium – I add this as a last resort as it is a prescription drug which is found to boost milk supply. I was prescribed this by my obstetrician and I do think it worked however if I was to do it again i would take the more natural steps of 1 & 2 before I took Motilium. (but that is person preference.
Is there any that I missed or that you found works really well? Let me know so I can add it to the list!
Re-usable or modern cloth nappies – what ever you call them I think they are great!
I have to be 100% honest to start this post. I never really set out to use re-usable nappies, it didn’t really occur to me when I fell pregnant and not something I really thought about, I was more interested in trying to get my babes name across the line (I didn’t win, I wanted Ari but we have Paddy!) or designing the right nursery (Here). So this is an honest account of why we use re-usable nappies and why I recommend you do to! So to start I was given a 12 pack of nappies as a gift from one of my best friends (nothing to do with the company – this isn’t sponsored – just true love), so that is how we came about to using them to start with – but now I am a total convert!
Its not that gross – When I pregnant and thought about changing nappies I thought number 3 and poo-explosions – the worse case scenario. But it was/is rarely the case. Yes they happen but honestly it’s a bucket load more 1’s than 2’s and whole lot less of the 3’s! Using re-usable nappies is exactly like changing a disposable nappy, so not any extra gross. (ps you get use to it very quickly)
Bamboo liners – makes it uber easy peasy. When I use the re-usable nappies I normally also use a flushable bamboo liner. The brand of nappy I use Bonnibuns doesn’t require these at all. I only started using them because to be honest I was a bit queazy about re-usable nappies in the beginning – but they are so easy I continued using them. You lift them out of the nappy and flush, the liquid goes into the nappy liner and solid stays on the bamboo liner and into the toilet! I use these
Easy clean – 1 load of washing a night with a dash of washing liquid. Nearly all re-usable nappies recommend only a small amount of washing liquid (about half of a normal load) so there is no build up and the liners stay super absorbent! With my nappies the shell is super quick drying but the liner takes a little longer (liner clips out) you can buy extra liners if you need to. As I said above I use bamboo liners most of the time but when I haven’t and it was a number 2 I flipped as much as I could into the toilet and washed as normal (no pre-soaking needed just washing machine). Once I dried them on the line I couldn’t tell which liner it was – so they wear and wash very well!
Multi – fit so you can use these for 2 years (or however long your babe is in nappies! Disclaimer: I did use new-born nappies. Think of all the land fill you will save if you use re-aseable nappies! Bonnibuns come with snap clips which are super easy and clips last longer than velcro on other brands!
They are Cute – if you have a summer baby like me, a nappy and singlet and away you go. Heaps of different colours so you can match your singlet!
Cost – I own 12 nappies (which I find more than enough). I use on average 6 per day, and I still use a disposable at night. Bonnibuns come with an extra liner for night time, but I have never used them as Paddy sleeps through and we have never had a leak with disposables overnight. (If it ain’t broke – I’m not fixing it, or in this case making any changes to my baby’s sleeping patterns!) So I wash every night and I have 6 on the clothes line to dry the next day and 6 ready to go for Paddy) The original outlay is about $270, a box of Huggies is about $28 on special. So a set of re-usables equals 9 1/2 boxes of Huggies! Trust me 9 boxes of Huggies isn’t going to get you through 2 years like a set of re-usables will. And you can re-use your re-usable nappies for all of your children or neices and nephews. Getting cheaper and cheaper ever time! If you choose to use the bamboo liners they are about 10c each and a disposable nappy is about 40c, so still ongoing cost but as I said before optional and not necessary.
These are my best reasons why you should at least give them a go. Most brands have trial packs that you can buy and see for yourself how great and easy to use they are! Let me know if you love them as much as me!